The “Nice Guy” Excuse

This dating game is far too complicated for me and i’m getting annoyed with it. As a heterosexual male, who’s been told by more than one person that i’m too nice, and it turns women off, how do I become a mean asshole who somehow becomes desirable for women?

The answer on Quora:  

Please tell these immature peers of yours that they can take their opinions and stick it somewhere where the sun don’t shine. Continue reading “The “Nice Guy” Excuse”

Seven-hundred-sixty days

It has been approximately 760 days since I moved to Thailand.

That’s over two years of adventure I never expected, of pure joy, strangers to friends, tough tough learnings, three homes, a filled passport and a partner who can make me smile 1,434km away.

I went to a party last night to bump plastic cups with people I haven’t seen in over half a year. One was 100 days pregnant, three are leaving the country by May and another set a one year cap on Bangkok.

These were the same individuals who climbed waterfalls with me, cooked delicious vegan meals and together, partied until sun rise. And now, here we are, at stages in life completely different from when we first met.

It’s not an overstatement when I say, “time flies” in Asia.  Continue reading “Seven-hundred-sixty days”

You’re glowing.

“There is a moment in the day

Where I can’t stop thinking about you

Where I feel the need to talk to you

Where I would give you my affection if I was next to you

When I feel you in the middle of my chest

This moment, today, is now

I love you”

He wrote me, simply out of the blue, amidst our usual conversation of doge memes and Skype emojis. I think I finally understand what it means to have your heart melt.

Continue reading “You’re glowing.”